Please help me with my hair.??

well i have long hair in layers..i am doing something thats messing up my hair...i dont no is i use the right brush..i have very thick hair and it gots splitted ends..i cut my points a month ago..but when i brush it-it gets puffy..my hair is the type that dont get puffy but why is it happening is it burnt..i dont straigthen my hair much..i do not use any chimicals i just die my hair but back then all this happen even with natural hair color..i think it is cuz i use a brush for thin hair cuz my moms hair is very thin...ppl LOVE my hair but i feel offended cuz i have a friend that told me i have ugly hair..i wash it everyday cuz if i dont it gets greesy(ewww)..do u think i should cut it a bit..i dont really want to..or should i use a comb or a right brush..if i use a comb would it work

Please help me with my hair.??

Yes cut/trim your hair but tell the hairdresser to cut off only what need to be cut. Tell her exactly what you want because if not shes going to go scissor happy. use some kind of cream on your hair before you brush/comb or a de frizzing gel that works even if frizzyness isnt the problem

Please help me with my hair.??

my hair does the same thing but i dont have thick hair and i straighten my hair somtimes my friend have really thick hair and hers did that and she got a haircut and now he hair is kinda curly but its def not ugly

Please help me with my hair.??

Well first of all don't wash it every day that grease you feel in you hair is its own natural conditioner and it helps it be strong try every other day and see how that works and yes maybe it is the brush. Try changing brushes and brush starting at the tips and work your way up use anti frizz also that might help.

Please help me with my hair.??

comb your hair only when its wet and brush it only when its dry. washing your hair in hot water can make it mess up... does that help?

Please help me with my hair.??

My sister had this problem. she used straightening jell stuff/spray on the bottom then straightend it in layers. It worked!

Please help me with my hair.??

You should ask your hairbresser which brush would work for you and also you shouldn't wash your hair everyday as that makes it more greasy and is bad for your hair. And don't listen to your friend, if she's a real friend she shouldn't be hurting you like that.

Please help me with my hair.??

sounds like u def need a trim for ur breakage